Ever had a question about relationships or sex that you just can’t ask your oncology care provider? Ever felt too shy to ask a nurse or doctor a question, but really needed the answer? Now you can ask those questions and get answers from Dr. Anne Katz, the Awkward Auntie! We’re back for another round of Awkward Auntie. Read on for some more recent Q&As!
Question: Curious … If I am taking Temodar (oral chemo for brain cancer), can I still receive oral sex from my partner?
Answer: Oral chemotherapy medications can be present in bodily fluids, including vaginal fluids, for the entire duration of treatment and for at least 48 to 72 hours after the last dose. While the risk of harm from limited exposure is considered low, it is important to take precautions to protect partners from potential exposure to these medications. Using condoms or, in your case, a dental dam, will provide protection for your partner. The reality is that there is hardly any research into oral chemotherapy and body fluids. The advice above is what is for IV chemotherapy. What information have you received from your oncology providers? They should be advising you, and their assumption that you are not sexually active is not an excuse!
You can learn more about this great program, find the answers to past questions, and submit a question of your own by going here!
More about the Awkward Auntie program:
Dr. Anne Katz, also known as the Awkward Auntie, is a certified sexuality counselor and nurse who has written a couple of books about young adults and cancer – and all the things that happen to your body, relationships, and sex during and after treatment. She will answer any and all questions that you send to AwkwardAuntie@lacunaloft.org or submit in the form below. You don’t have to give your name or other identifying information – but it might be helpful for her to know how you identify yourself by gender, your age, and what kind of cancer and treatment you had.
YOU CAN ASK HER ANYTHING…. Don’t hold back! Your questions will be answered periodically and posted on our Awkward Auntie page.
