Ever had a question about relationships or sex that you just can’t ask your oncology care provider? Ever felt too shy to ask a nurse or doctor a question, but really needed the answer? Now you can ask those questions and get answers from Dr. Anne Katz, the Awkward Auntie! We’re back for another round of Awkward Auntie. Read on for some more recent Q&As!
Question: I feel like I’ll never get into a relationship as soon as I tell people I’ve just had my third chemo in my life, and I’m not even 30 yet. What should I do?
Answer: You are truly a survivor! That’s a lot. Your cancer history is a fact of your life, and not everyone is going to be unfazed by learning about that. But your history has also made you brave and resilient.
The one thing that I am not sure about in your question is whether you are reluctant to meet potential partner(s) or have experienced rejection when you have disclosed. Some survivors disclose right when they start talking to someone online. Others wait a while to see if there is any connection. I think the latter offers an opportunity for someone to get to know you, rather than closing down something before even talking to you more.
The resilience that got you through your cancer treatment can help you get through the challenges of dating, etc. Be brave!
You can learn more about this great program, find the answers to past questions, and submit a question of your own by going here!
More about the Awkward Auntie program:
Dr. Anne Katz, also known as the Awkward Auntie, is a certified sexuality counselor and nurse who has written a couple of books about young adults and cancer – and all the things that happen to your body, relationships, and sex during and after treatment. She will answer any and all questions that you send to AwkwardAuntie@lacunaloft.org or submit in the form below. You don’t have to give your name or other identifying information – but it might be helpful for her to know how you identify yourself by gender, your age, and what kind of cancer and treatment you had.
YOU CAN ASK HER ANYTHING…. Don’t hold back! Your questions will be answered periodically and posted on our Awkward Auntie page.
