Ever had a question about relationships or sex that you just can’t ask your oncology care provider? Ever felt too shy to ask a nurse or doctor a question, but really needed the answer? Now you can ask those questions and get answers from Dr. Anne Katz, the Awkward Auntie! We’re back for another round of Awkward Auntie. Read on for some more recent Q&As!
Question: During surgical menopause, when I can’t use hormone therapy or creams, how can I keep my vagina from atrophying? How can I continue to have penetrative sex without pain if vaginal moisturizers alone aren’t working?
Answer: If your cancer is not hormone-dependent, there is no reason why you cannot use hormone replacement therapy. Even for women with hormone-dependent breast cancer, there is good evidence that local estrogen is safe. Vaginal moisturizers are for daily comfort and not for penetration. For any kind of sexual touch and penetration, you need to use a silicone-based lubricant and reapply it during sexual activity if it starts to dry up. It is also important for you and your partner to ensure that you are aroused (don’t rush!) before penetration.
You can learn more about this great program, find the answers to past questions, and submit a question of your own by going here!
More about the Awkward Auntie program:
Dr. Anne Katz, also known as the Awkward Auntie, is a certified sexuality counselor and nurse who has written a couple of books about young adults and cancer – and all the things that happen to your body, relationships, and sex during and after treatment. She will answer any and all questions that you send to AwkwardAuntie@lacunaloft.org or submit in the form below. You don’t have to give your name or other identifying information – but it might be helpful for her to know how you identify yourself by gender, your age, and what kind of cancer and treatment you had.
YOU CAN ASK HER ANYTHING…. Don’t hold back! Your questions will be answered periodically and posted on our Awkward Auntie page.
